Life at Sea

We are getting closer to home; ship staff want our departure information, clocks are spinning backwards at a dizzying speed and the ship is speeding along at 18 knots.  We are scheduled to arrive in NYC on time Saturday. Here’s how I spent my Sunday.

It’s a good time to tell you about our shipmates, but please keep in mind that generalities are tough when three different groups of passengers have thoroughly mingled.

The original group of 600 departed NYC after numerous cruise trips had been cancelled due to COVID: the “COVID pause.” Many of these 600 were anxious and impatient to get back to sea, booking additional cruises this year to feed that hunger despite the continued danger of COVID.   About 300 of these original travelers were replaced in Reykjavík by equally anxious “experience-seekers” who kayaked, hiked, and/or dined in cool places during our brief stops. Most of that 300 left the ship in Le Havre, too impatient to handle all the upcoming sea days.

The 300 or so who boarded in La Havre included some who had been touring Europe for weeks on their own, others whose primary interest was just being on the ship, and some who were using credits from previous trips or adding trips for their loyalty rewards. 

Most of these travelers are frequent travelers with 40 or more cruises under their belt.  Conversations typically start with “Where have you been before?”  Passengers arrive and mostly stay in couples (friends, partners, grandparent/grandchild). Most are repeat cruisers (as in 40 or more cruises under their belts.) We didn’t try to socialize at first; telling our COVID story wasn’t good conversation when COVID was roaring through the ship, and Bob’s cough has been disruptive until recently. We learned that in this COVID time, most socialization is on buses or in small-group ship activities. In the dining rooms, tables of four or six are the exception; large tables remain empty while 2-person tables fill quickly.

A few of the stories we’ve heard are just plain sad: “My husband and I were planning this trip together. He died of COVID, and I decided to come anyway.” “My mother just died; we had planned to come together. My family said I should come to honor her.” “I was asked to accompany a 90+ year old; he bought a 2-year suite ticket for us and died on the ship after just a few months.  I am finishing the trip.” Some passengers have portable electric wheelchairs, many have canes, there are both deaf and blind passengers on board and some who are clearly demented.

Oceania Insignia has a laundry room, used by all who don’t get free laundry with their upgraded room choice.  Always busy, the laundry room is the source of great gossip. “Two men got into a fight on an earlier cruise about whose turn for the dryer was next and were subsequently disembarked from the ship.”  “There were 30 or 40 or 50 or maybe 100 COVID cases earlier in the cruise.” “There is no COVID on board now.” None of that may be true.

Dress, except at dinner, is more like COVID comfort than Country Club casual: shorts, t-shirts, sandals. Folk “dress” for the dining room and specialty restaurants with slacks, shirts and shoes and occasional jackets or fancy shawls and tops. Hardly any jewelry.

Maybe tomorrow, we can touch on food.  Or maybe I’ll just read another mystery on the deck….As I finish this blog, a diversion from my original “aging” blog, do let me know if you have questions. Once home, this will all be in the past.

Lunch on the outdoor buffet restaurant as we left Lisbon. It was a beautiful day.

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Betty Warner

Married female, mother of two, grandmother of five. Living in a senior living community, where dinner, house maintenance, and continuing care are part of the contract. Residents in this community are actively engaged in our lifestyle here; I currently help produce Zoom programs, and help edit our webpage. Physically "healthy for your age" despite shortness of breath, two knee replacements, a cardiac murmur, various skin issues and an incipient back problem.

2 thoughts on “Life at Sea”

    1. Thank you so much again for allowing me to accompany you on this amazing journey via your fascinating blog. The time changes make me laugh (at myself)…because I can’t even remember what day it is when we have a holiday on Monday. Happy Labor day. It will be a delight to have you and Bob back at Kendal. Blessings and love,


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